Starting college feels exciting, overwhelming, and a little bit like being thrown into the deep end. There’s so much to figure out beyond just classes and dorm decor. Luckily, we’ve gathered a little “big sister” advice—things we wish we knew before our first semester.
Here are five small but powerful lessons that will make your transition so much smoother.
1. Don’t procrastinate cleaning
It sneaks up on you. One pile of laundry turns into a mountain, and suddenly you’re still sleeping on the same sheets from move-in day.
Keeping your space clean doesn’t just look better—it makes you feel better. Fresh sheets are an instant mood reset, and a tidy desk actually makes studying easier.
Big sister tip: Make cleaning part of your weekly routine, not something you put off until it’s unbearable.
2. Learn how to budget (even if it’s just coffee money)
For a lot of us, college is the first time we’re managing our own money. And yes—even the little things, like how many lattes you’re buying each week, add up.
Start small: give yourself spending limits and actually track them. Knowing where your money goes means you can say yes to the fun stuff that matters most to you—whether that’s a weekend trip, a concert ticket, or just guilt-free pizza nights.
3. Use office hours
Professors can feel intimidating, but here’s the secret: office hours are one of the most underused college hacks.
Even popping in once or twice helps you stand out, and those relationships can turn into future recommendation letters, research opportunities, or just someone in your corner when finals get stressful.
Trust us—future you will thank you.
4. It takes time to find your people
You might not click with the first people you meet in your dorm or your classes—and that’s totally normal. Everyone’s still figuring themselves out.
The right friends, clubs, and routines will fall into place once you stop forcing it. Give yourself permission to float, explore, and try new things until you find the group that feels like home.
5. Balance fun + responsibility
College isn’t just exams and essays—it’s late-night adventures, pizza runs, and making memories you’ll keep forever.
Say yes to the fun stuff, but also know when it’s time to recharge, catch up on sleep, and get things done. Both sides matter, and the balance is what makes college actually enjoyable.
✨ Whether you’re packing for move-in or already halfway through your first semester, keep this big sister advice in your back pocket. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about making the most of this season and giving yourself grace along the way.